My child's father was abusive. We split up when our child was almost 2 but she was old enough to understand what was happening. She used to tell people that he hurt me. We have been split up for a few years now but he still sees her as per our visitation order. He abuses his new partner and our daughter is seeing it all over again, and now she dosent want to see him anymore but i don't know how to speak to him about it.
So my question is... has anyone else been an abuse victim? Does it affect your child? What do you think i should do?